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Tuesday, February 27, 2007

Fuzzy moral accounting

Back when I was attending University in Manhattan, a friend of mine got mugged on his way back, late at night, from a concert at Harlem's famed Apollo Theater.  An impromptu splurge on a couple of CD's after the concert had diminished my friends pocket money to a small collection of coins so instead of taking a taxi as he'd originally planned, he thanked-G-d for his trusty MetroCard and set off to take the subway home.

On his way to the nearest subway station he was dragged into an apartment vestibule by a couple of teenagers and relieved of his new CDs, his watch and approximately 60 cents in change. 

Whether out of disappointment at the paltry haul or just plain meanness, the teens worked my friend over pretty well, leaving him with a split lip, a bloody nose and more bruises than he'd ever experienced at one time in his life.

The next day as the story began to circulate among his friends, a consensus began to form; 'What the heck was he doing on 125th Street after midnight?'  In short, while there was, of course, general head shaking and tongue clucking over the assault, the conventional wisdom held that he had placed himself in unnecessary danger by walking through such a bad neighborhood late at night.

At the time I remember feeling a mild disconnect at this warped logic.  Were the laws less strictly enforced in Harlem?  Was 125th street some kind of 'Indian Territory' that was beyond the long arm of the law after dark.  Were the people who lived in that neighborhood held to a different standard of conduct?

I have to admit that I didn't dwell on these questions overly long as they were in complete discord with the tenets of my liberal upbringing.  To pursue that line of questioning would have required exploring the many unconscious departures I'd made from political correctness in the name of survival in the big city. 

Let's face it, it's not comfortable thinking about having crossed the street late at night to avoid a street-corner full of black or Hispanic men, so instead I used fuzzy accounting to balance my moral checkbook - not to the penny, as I had learned in school - but by rounding down to the nearest ten dollars.

In the wake of yesterday's murder of Erez Levanon, a similar consensus seems to have taken shape here in Israel.  Nearly every news article about the murder latched onto a passing statement made by the security officer of Bat Ayin, Mr. Levenon's town:

"Yaki Morag, the head of security for the small town, told Army Radio in an interview that the area where Levanon was killed was fraught with dangers."

I have no idea if the security officer's statement about the relative danger of the area was unprompted, or if it was in response to questions asked by the interviewer.  But as soon as the words left his lips, they became the kernel around which every subsequent news report was constructed... as if to say:

'Yes, it was tragic that Erez Levanon was brutally killed... but look where he was! What the heck was he doing on 125th street after midnight?!  tsk, tsk, tsk.'

People who wouldn't dream of suggesting that Arab culture is dominated by hatred and death, or that Palestinians view every Jew as a legitimate target, were somehow able to do just that while taking the mental leap to allow a nice chunk of the blame to be shifted quite squarely onto the victim.

But like the younger version of myself who once-upon-a-time had made peace with not balancing my moral checkbook to the penny, many Israelis reading the article about the murder of Erez Levanon performed their own little bit of fuzzy moral accounting and ignored the inconvenient fact that the only way '125th street' could be 'fraught with dangers' is if you have sound reasons to expect dangerous/criminal behavior from the people who live there.

On the few occasions when I've had this very discussion with some of my more 'lefty' friends, they've invariably side-stepped my implied accusation by pointing an accusing finger at 'the occupation' as some sort of blanket justification for any aberrant behavior among a small group of otherwise peace-loving people. 

When I have pursued the argument to the next logical question; 'So when someone sees an Arab at a checkpoint... entering a cafe... getting on a bus... or walking in the woods... how can they tell if this is a 'typical peace-loving Arab' or one of these rare dangerous ones?'  At that point the discussion usually disintegrates into tangents about the evils of 'racism' and 'profiling'... with the result that I've never gotten a satisfactory answer to my question. 

So I throw it out to you, a diverse group of the most reasonable people I know:

1.  Can one reasonably claim that a place is inherently dangerous without acknowledging the source of the danger?

2.  Is it worth making a meaningful distinction between an entire culture being violent and only a few bad actors in their midst acting in a predictably violent manner if the net result to society at large is the same?

3.  Does the [hypothetical] existence of an educated, reasonable, peaceful majority of Arabs who are committed to peaceful coexistence with Israel really matter if they are completely powerless to curb the violence advocated by their leaders and carried out by a small minority of their people?

4.  If you can't safely walk down 125th street after midnight, isn't that a problem worth fully acknowledging and maybe even addressing... or is it safer (physically and morally) to simply cede the night and the territory to those who would do you harm?

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Posted by David Bogner on February 27, 2007 | Permalink

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1. Can one reasonably claim that a place is inherently dangerous without acknowledging the source of the danger?

Yes. But not mentioning source only brings up the obvious question of why. And that question begs to be answered, even if those who ask it are afraid of the answer.

2. Is it worth making a meaningful distinction between an entire culture being violent and only a few bad actors in their midst acting in a predictably violent manner if the net result to society at large is the same?

No. Use Nazi Germany as an example. Not every German of that era was a goose-stepping disciple of Hitler. But there were enough of them to give Hitler the ability to make war and commit mass-murder. So....to deal with the Nazis and to bring peace, Germany as a whole had to be taken down. Unfortunately, the righteous Germans suffered along with the evil ones, but that couldn't be helped. Ask me my opinion and I'll tell you that the same thing applies to the Palestinians. Enough of them have spilled blood that the Pals as a whole must be considered a threat.

3. Does the [hypothetical] existence of an educated, reasonable, peaceful majority of Arabs who are committed to peaceful coexistence with Israel really matter if they are completely powerless to curb the violence advocated by their leaders and carried out by a small minority of their people?

No. See #2.

4. If you can't safely walk down 125th street after midnight, isn't that a problem worth fully acknowledging and maybe even addressing... or is it safer (physically and morally) to simply cede the night and the territory to those who would do you harm?

A refusal to deal with the problem in a decisive manner will only allow the problem to spread. Appeasement does not and never has worked, the appeased consider the appeasers to be weak. Allowing evil to flourish is immoral.

"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." - Edmund Burke

"The spread of evil is the symptom of a vacuum. whenever evil wins, it is only by default: by the moral failure of those who evade the fact that there can be no compromise on basic principles." - Ayn Rand

Posted by: K Newman | Feb 27, 2007 2:09:47 PM

Good questions
If people "like me" were doing very bad things and others thought I was doing bad things, then I would want their activity to stop. Unless, I secretly wanted them to do bad things while I personally remained innocent. I find that most people will say the politically correct thing while only a few will speak their true feelings.

Posted by: jeannie | Feb 27, 2007 3:10:27 PM

1. No.
2. No.
3. No.
4. Yes, a problem worth fully acknowledging and maybe even addressing. That's exactly what Giulliani did in NYC. So, to blame the victim further, we could say that he chose to walk in a dangerous neighborhood under a dangerous administration. Maybe as president, Giuliani can help you with your murder rate also. It seems the Middle East could do with some New York law enforcement.

Posted by: Doctor Bean | Feb 27, 2007 3:39:45 PM

You are absolutely correct about the blame-the-victim mentality. Nevertheless the answer to question # 2 is emphatically yes.

If the violence in a society is due to a minority of bad actors then it's important to treat individuals with respect at the same time that we cautiously eye them with suspicion.

Posted by: dd | Feb 27, 2007 4:31:34 PM

#3 - there is a pragmatic difference in terms of the intelligent strategy used to deal with the problem. If there is no such segment in the population at large - i.e. they are all out to kill us - then (again, from a pragmatic point of view) there is no point in respecting the individual/bystander. If there is such a segment, then we should avoid alienating them, by taking their presumed innocence into account.

Posted by: dov weinstock | Feb 27, 2007 4:45:11 PM

My roommate and I had this discussion on the way to the subway this morning. Except that she was saying that she does modify her behavior, and then feels terrible about it.

I'd like to add a caveat to the "don't walk around 125th street after dark" it should instead be "don't walk around dimly lit, poorly populated places in a city at night." I know of people who have been mugged on 114th street (right next to Columbia University) as well as in other parts of town.

Posted by: Annie | Feb 27, 2007 6:31:03 PM

"Is it worth making a meaningful distinction between an entire culture being violent and only a few bad actors in their midst acting in a predictably violent manner if the net result to society at large is the same?"
Yes. Is it hard? Absolutly, but I think maintaining those distinctions is what gives us the moral high ground. We aren't willing to accept the deaths of innocent civilians as something that we cannot avoid. This is what makes us better than the people who blow up anyone to get what they want. I think if we don't draw that line, we've already lost what we're fighting for. I think the same thing applies to 3 as well.

Posted by: Emily | Feb 27, 2007 6:58:11 PM

As a similarly pleasantly-naive-ignorant-foolhardy-moronic college student who also walked across Washington Heights at 2am coming back from the Subway station (and who is horrified to hear about when his daughter does the same), I understand this post very well.

And as a guy who personally almost got killed trying to find street parking up by YU one late night (and was rescued by a band of Puerto Rican cab drivers--that's a weird story for another time), I think you have to be a realist.

To address your questions:

1. Yes. If a place is dangerous, it's dangerous. Not like, an area with a lot of quicksand or vulcanic activity. I'm just talking about your average inner city neighborhood. If you want to think it's not dangerous because the lefty in you can't stand the thought of assigning blame to the minorities living in the inner city neighborhood, that's your right, but you're an idiot. The muggers don't care what you think of them. They want your money.

2. No. It's the result that counts. And if the society at large can't control their bad actors, it's their problem, not mine.

3. See 2.

4. You need to use common sense. Yes it's wrong that there are areas that are verbotten to white people and to Jews. That doesn't make it smart to go parading through them in the middle of the night. If you have some plan to clean them up, like Giuliani did to 42nd street, then by all means do it. Otherwise, take a freakin cab.

Posted by: psychotoddler | Feb 27, 2007 8:18:52 PM

Ditto psychotoddler. Just because you wish there were no dangerous places in the world doesn't make it true.

Levanon's murder was a tragedy, but I had the same thought as the army guy you quoted.

Posted by: Abbi | Feb 27, 2007 8:34:58 PM

Not so long ago, a similar event
occured in Manahattan in which a young graduate student attending
John Jay College of CUNY was
murdered/mutilated. The response
by some: 'what was she doing
out on the street at 2am, drunk?', as though culpability
for her murder and abuse accrued
to her by the fact of her behavior. Makes sense?

Posted by: Schvach | Feb 27, 2007 9:12:26 PM

Excellent post David. My comment may be a little lengthy but it addresses those exact questions.

When I lived in San Francisco, my friend and I left a bar at around 2am. He wanted to pay for a taxi but didn't have any money left, so we decided to walk until we found an ATM. The night was so nice, so we just kept walking and before we knew it we hit an area in the projects (Western Addition off Geary). We were on one side of the boulevard and a crowd of "homeboys" appeared on the opposite side behind us. As we walked further down the block, my gut told me that we really should not be there and it would be wise to cross the street or flag down a taxi. The crowd split up and two or three guys crossed the street where we were and began walking behind us, a short distance back.

Though neither one of us said anything, my liberal thinking was not to jump to any conclusions. This is their home, its where they hang out, and just because they are dressed a certain way, are acting loud, etc, don't assume that they are criminals. But as our pace hastened so did theirs, and my friend grabbed my hand and said "when I say cross the street, go." So we did, and the guys behind us followed, and yep, my gut was right. We should have gotten our butts out of there, because we ended up getting mugged, but thank god without any physical harm. Of course, we never got to a bank, so my friend had no money, and I had about $12 in my back pocket. One of the kids (they were around 15 yrs old) reached into my pocket, took the money and split. We soon spotted a taxi and told the driver what happened and asked for a ride. There were some other guys in the cab, and they too had just gotten mugged. In the end I still had a $10 bill in my pocket, the kid got away with only two dollars.

Fast forward six months later. I am waiting at the bus stop near my very safe apartment, across the street from some of the most expensive hotels in San Francisco, and a large group of some very rowdy black teens, dressed in their "homeboy" clothing, were walking up the hill and stopped to wait for the bus next to me. My heart was pounding and my head and heart were torn to pieces. One part of me was, hey, they are teens and teenagers are very rambunctious and they can travel anywhere in the city that they want to. But the fearful side of me was scared and angry. What the hell were these kids doing in my neighborhood. I am supposed to feel safe here, and now I am so scared.

To have these two opposing thoughts coming at you at the same time is quite an experience. I was able to calm myself down and I got on the bus with all of them. Then I had the opportunity to watch a sociological experiment unfold. Most of the people on the bus were men and women returning home from work, most of them I suppose worked in the Financial district. The fear that crossed their faces when all these black teens got on the bus was very apparent, and the teens were very much aware of it and took full advantage of it. They got even louder, more rowdy, and it helped me relax and even smile to see it all unfold. When they finally got off (near the same area I got mugged), the whole bus took a sigh of relief. The tension and fear disappeared.

From that moment on, my whole life changed. For a long time afterwards, I always looked over my shoulder, avoided certain areas, bus lines, even when my husband and I were looking to move into a new apartment two years later, I absolutely refused to consider any "bohemian" neighborhoods, because even though my liberal upbringing was to give everyone a chance and to not believe or accept the worst in people, I was now very jaded by experience.

The point of this is that as much as you want to give a group of people the benefit of doubt, if a neighborhood is dangerous, it's reputation for being that way is there for a reason. And one is not using too much common sense, if they let their 'liberal' thinking get in the way of keeping on their guard and taking safety precautions. You should always go with your gut, even if you don't want to hurt someone's feelings or be perceived in a certain way.

Posted by: jaime | Feb 28, 2007 1:26:27 AM

Hi David,

Ultimately, all of those questions come down to ONE issue:

- Taking RESPONSIBILITY for one's own actions.

And it's not happening.

This has always been a guide phrase for me:

"Don't blame the firemen for the arsonist."

Arsonists don't exist because there are firemen to put out their twisted problems. That's faulty logic.

They exists through their own twisted characters and should be accountable for their actions.

The same thing goes for the terrorists of the Palestinian-Arabs and the society that enables them, more through active support than through omission or neglect.

Shalom,
Maksim-Smelchak.

Posted by: Maksim-Smelchak | Feb 28, 2007 1:26:46 AM

Just wanted to comment on one more thing, that my previous story is related only to your Harlem story, not to the man, who recently got killed. Though, if someone found themselves in harms way while visiting a known hostile arab community, then I would say, not that the person deserved it, but when the risks are high that something bad could happen, part of the blame does fall on the victim. IMHO.

Posted by: jaime | Feb 28, 2007 3:19:48 AM

I tend to think that discussions of moral relativism are over before they've begun.

But let me just say, truly and honestly, that the way you've phrased some of those questions doesn't leave me feeling like there's much room for discussion. And I think before you enter such discussions, you also need to acknowledge the underpinning disparity between the opposing premises of who has a right to do what, and where, in this region, and also what all parties are going to do to those who they feel are violating those rights. These are fundamental cornerstones to any such discussion. And admittedly, these cornerstones don't point to a bright future. But it's still a grey future, not a black or a white one.

Posted by: PP | Feb 28, 2007 10:33:52 AM

David,

Your comparison with 125th St. may be helpful, but I don't think it is really fair. From what I understand Levanon was murdered in a place he frequented to pray not very far from his home--this was not 125th street at midnight.

Also, I wonder if the same people blaming the victum would also think that all Jerusalemities should either leave the city or not use public transport, frequent cafes or go to the market, etc. when there is danger of bombings? Or, in Tel Aviv, Hadera, Netanya etc.? What about the residents of Sderot? Should we blame them for going outside when they could be hit by rockets?

What about you David? Could it not be said that you drive along 125th street everyday to work?

Posted by: David | Feb 28, 2007 7:08:13 PM

It seems foolish to me to ignore what you perceive as a threat because you are embarrassed to be threatened by what is obviously threatening. And dangerous.

Never blame the victim, but why go out of your way to be a victim yourself?

A good start would be Colonel Jeff Cooper's essays on awareness, easily found in many places on the web.

Posted by: Gandalin | Mar 1, 2007 4:48:06 AM

I too attended university in Manhattan and frequented unsafe places. What I eventually came to understand is that the places were unsafe for black people as well as white. Black on black crime is much greater than black on white crime. Without minimizing race, this is one of those issues that class plays a role. Therefore, if blacks felt unsafe, I felt unsafe. In any event I blame the murderer and never the victim.

Posted by: lrg | Mar 2, 2007 4:05:37 PM

I think that part of the Israeli reaction to Levanon's murder (and I admit that I felt the same way) is just denial. It could easily be us any time and living with this full knowledge is hard on anyone. So we try drawing the line somewhere between us and danger. There MUST be something we can do to be in control!

Posted by: Ruth | Mar 6, 2007 2:07:28 PM

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